Definititon misabortion : A missed abortion, or missed miscarriage, happens when the embryo has died but the body does not pass the products of conception.
A week after misabortion.. body rasa mcm serba x kene..i dont know why..tp i did follow all the pantang larang..no iced water, no makanan yg berbisa dan sejuk..i wore socks all the time kecuali time mandi jer..i took polleney pati ikan haruan everyday...supplement yg amik time pregnant still continue ambil juga...but at some time i feel ngilu ngilu kat ari ari and sometimes mcm sakit menyucuk..xtau kenapa or maybe it is normal..tomorow will my last check up with Dr Raja, i hope everything is ok..maybe i need some more rest la kot...adeh tp kat opis tu keje belambak..issue bertimbun..auditor dtg time2 macam ni plus xlama lagi dh nak financial year end..Ya Allah kuatkanlah semangat hamba mu ini..mama suruh amik mc lagi this week sebab aritu dia urut2 badan saya dia kata urat keras sangat n perlu rehat lagi...and kene juga cepat2 panggil org dtg mengurut..
Perasaan berbelah bagi..emotional support sangat penting time2 gini..Alhamdulliah hubby memahami walaupun mula2 dia mcm xtau apa2..mungkin dia igt benda2 ni mcm biasa2 je..tp skarang dia pun nak i rehat secukup-cukupnya...as a wife, kekadang rasa mcm bersalah sebab suruh itu ini kat husband kan...ntah la..kalau buat sendiri nanti badan kita yg kena bisa..tp bila suruh2 hati tu rasa mcm x best jer..ntah xtau kenapa...mcm ni pon leh sediyh...
But some people they just dont understand.. and maybe some of them keep on blaming on the mother which they presumed that the mother always the caused of miscarriage. I know...it hurts a lot even though they did not say it to my face but i know they did tell a story to the others...So kepada sesiapa yg seangkatan dengan saya please just ignore them...sebab dorang xtau bila dorang xkene...kalau dorang kene mungkin dorang akan paham...they are just typical manusia yg percaya benda2 tahyul...there are no such thing of bunian culik baby dlm perut...ini semua science and science has the reason why it happened.. so just ignore those people yg cetek pemikiran tu...
Life must go on...sakit kena tahan..teruskan berpantang dan rileks..dont spread the rumors to everybody dan kalau preggy lagi next time buat diam je..pasal saya rasa mungkin ada yg x suka...ada yg dengki...kalau ada org bg makanan selalu tu kalau rasa mcm pelik2 je jgn mkn la...bukan nak percaya yg tahyul tu...tp ni mmg ada yg terjadi dlm family sendiri.. so just precatious on some certain perangai2 org tuh....
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