Everybody was waiting for the day to come..
once your age has reach up to a certain level you will want to think about a new family..
the age will be at 25, where all girls are dreams for..
i am 24 today, and wanted my bachelor life to be ended in next year..
as a malay and muslims, there are many traditions that i've to follow..
there are 4 stages of married; which are merisik, bertunang, nikah and sanding
i've been planning this since i was a little girl..
i said to my mum that i want to get married at the age of 25..
and my mum was smiling as i was too young to said that..
it was a very big decision to made..
it is not like having a boyfriend where we can break up and find other boy as a replacement..
marriage is difficult..
to plan for it is even more difficult..
today is 10th April 2011 and i have to get started to plan what color theme for my merisik and tunang..
not just that, i have to plan early where its gonna be for my sanding functions..
Too many things to think about..too many things to be in the list..
im so confused..so many mouths talking giving ideas and advice not to do this and dont pick up this colour..
Why just can i pick my own ideas?but my ideas is too unique and it is not suitable with malay traditions..
Malay's wedding is complicated and i dont really like it..
i would prefer a very simple and not expensive wedding..
one day of wedding functions would be perfect if i just spend less then 30k..
Value of money today is not the same as value of money 10 years ago..
i can do anything with 30k but for today 30k is not enough for a wedding..
why can i just do a dinner without pelamin and hantaran?
fuh..
it is better to start planning today rather than 6month before wedding..
i want my wedding to be a happy moment for all of the peoples who will be attending to the function..
the most important thing of a wedding is the food..i want a delicious food to be presented to the guest
and door gift is the second important thing..
Overall, i would say that people's comforts are important.. :)
lets just pray that everything will runs smooth with fun and happines..
