Wednesday, December 21, 2011

2012 akan menjelang tiba

memang masa bergerak dgn sekelip mata sahaja..
Kita manusia x sedar dan masih meruskan rutin2 harian yg sepatutnya xperlu lagi dibuat.
familiar x dgn ni "aku keja lagi dua tahun laa...kumpul duit utk beli rumah..pastu aku cari la keje lain".
Rasanya benda ni tiap2 tahun disebut2..x pun azam tahun baru konon nak live a healthy lifestyle..
well thats bullshit..! Nehi mungkin mera pyarr...mulut ringan nak berkata2 hati tu berat mcm bumi ni kalau nak buat..sama lah dgn stop smoking..cuba tanya kwn2 laki2 tiap2 tahun mesti dorang ada ckp "aku nak stop smoking la" hahahah...dr tahun 2004 lagi nak stop sampai sekarang masih lagi berasap... lucu perangai manusia ni..benda x senang nak buat kecuali hati betol2 cekal..Kahwin, satu perkara yg sangat memberi kesan pada hidup sesorang..bukan senang untuk aku ckp " jom kita kahwin" sebab aku tau tanggungjawab akan di pikul nanti..dan kau akan padamkan hidup bujang kau..which is benda yg sgt berat untk aku tinggal kan..

Bila satu hari...hati tiba2 terbuka..terfikir ttg kesihatan..kebahagian..keseronokan berkeluarga dan yang paling penting untuk hidup sehidup semati dgn org yg paling memahami and mencintai diri aku. Perempuan ganaszz mcm mana pun tetap perempuan..bro macam mana pun ttp lembut juga dr dalam..cuma x boleh dilihat dgn mata kasar..

 Sama juga dgn lelaki..luaran ganaz tp dlm nya berbunga2..hheheheh...10.11.12 will be my big day, the day that i will end my crazy enjoy party life..everything gonna be total diff. But i just want to be my self + with tanggungjawab sebagai seorang isteri. So tunggu je la...the day will come...











Sunday, December 11, 2011

Caterers and boutiqes.

Hi all,

Now lets talk about caterers. byk dh caterer aku cek and byk yg suka bg pakej all in one, kononya senang la x payah nak gi cari tmpt2 lain lagi. Tp rasanya mampu ke caterer ni nak buat semua?cukup ke pekerja dorang and creative ke dorang nak buat pelamin mcm apa yg  kita nak..n dorang ni agak pandai la sebab kalau amik pakej lagi murah dpd amik satu satu..contoh nya pakej tu ada pelamin,baju.make up, bunga tangan laa tp aku nak pelamin je..xnak baju sume tu..dr harga pakej 2999 and kalau amik pelamin sahaja jadi 3500..di manakah logiknya itu??pelik...so kira cost dorang mmg sangat rendah sebenarnya mcm mana leh caj 2999 tu lebih dr 3 barang tp satu pelamin tu je harga dia sampai 3500...pelik2..so kena la berhati hati bila nak pilih caterer or boutiqe2 ni..

Mmg mangaku yang sgt susah nak dptkan yg btol2 mcm apa yg kita mau. Kalau nak pilih caterer mcm mana kita nak tau btol sedap ke x makanan dia? org kata mesti ada food testing..ok btol la juga tu..akan tetapi..bila kita buat food testing portion makanan yg dorang masak tu sikit so ada la quality controlnya kt situ. Bila time majlis dorang akan masak portion untuk 1500 over pax, so adakah akan ada quality control kt situ. Susah susah..pening kepala jadinya kalau nak pilih caterer ni..ye la caterer tu la yg diantara terpenting untuk wedding..kalau x sedap makanannya mmg spoil abis la orang kata..

So aku dh cek2 caterer2..ni yg aku jumpa n agak suka juga la.. tp x buat food testing lagi..cuma tgk gambar je mcm sedap...and dorang ni pun ada pakej2 sendiri gak.

1. Manisa Catering (RM17/pax) --mak aku beria ia suruh aku amik yang ini
2. Wedding Station (RM14/pax) -- gambar nampak sodap n dh penah jumpa dorang and i think ok la kot
3. Seri Saji ( RM14/pax) ni pakej yg ada sume skali dr pelamin, baju, walkway, meja hadiah...etc considered very cheap
4.Anjung catering - yg ni pun ada byk pakej yg quite cheap sebab untuk dewan tanpa kerusi meja (RM8.60/pax) pakej ni ada kek 2 tingkat.yg lain tu standard la untk meja pengantin and meja vip pun ada juga.
5. Eiman Catering (RM11.90/pax) utk pakej dewan --- ni ada bubur kacang and kek 3 tingkat n dia sedia kan meja kerusi skali..

Still masih buat decision lagi..masa lama lagi..slow2 la cari yg btol2 baguz..aku teringat cousin aku kahwin aritu ada buat nasi hujan panas (my fav) mmg best la..nanti nak kene tanya no phone caterer tu..sebab makanan dia mmg sodap..rasanya dlm RM10 je sekepala..update with u guys later..














Monday, November 28, 2011

Its the Day : Engagement pictures
























Dewan Budget

Weekend ni aku, fiance and mama aku pi la tgk2 dewan..dr minggu lepas lagi dok search kt tenet..penat tol cari dewan ni..walaupun lagi 11bln lagi nak kahwin..tp aku kene cepat juga book sebab depa kata depa book setahun awal.. so aku pi la cari..

Dewan2 yg on list skang :

1.Dewan Guthrie,Bukit Jelutong : muat 320 org dlm satu masa..tp boleh tambah lagi 14 meja = 112 pax lagi. sewa hanya 1300 (x termasuk meja n kerusi) . satu set meja kerusi sama dgn rm50. Kalau aku, aku amik dewan je sebab meja kerusi dia mahal sgt plak..baik ambik dgn catterer sebab ada caterer yg bg 30 meja trus dlm pakej.so lagi senang la.

2. Dewan Warisan, kompleks warga emas
Tempat ni leh muat 400pax, sewa RM3000 sekali dgn meja kerusi. dewan dia boleh la tp masalahnye, tmpt dia nampak tmpt xsiap sebab pagar batu kat luar tu x di cat n x siap la..xtau kenapa dia mcm tu..kalau dibuat elok2 ok dh tu.

3.Dewan serbaguna MBSA
Haaa...had ni mmg murah gila. RM400 je tp masalahnye xde aircon..itu aja..

4. Dewan Kastam, KJ
Ni aku xberapa sure pasal xdpt contact lagi..tp kawan aku bisness pasang2 khemah ni ckp sewa sana RM700 je..siap ada aircon lagi.Cuma masalahnye dgn aku ialah kaler kuning...sebab aku x suke warna kuning..mmmm sabar je la

So far ni je la yg murah2..yg lain tu mmg lebih dr 3000 la...mcm dewan bankuet mbsa rm4500, dewan raja muda musa rm6400, putrajaya rm8000 and hotel sume mmg mahal la..pasti 30,000 x lari la...so pikir2 kan la..duit kahwin tu baik lagi la simpan utk lepas kahwin..mana kot tau bunting pelamin..pastu lagi baguz pakai utk honeymoon..toksah la ikut sgt ckp kengkawan tu yg suruh buat kt hotel la dewan la kelab la..just forget about it..not worth it spending 50k and above for 4 hours weddings..apa dpt?kalau duit org bg dpt cover cantik gak tu kan...huhuhu...


Friday, November 4, 2011

Engagement 11.11.11

Its 4th of November, another one week before my engagement..
and i am excited, stressed and nervous at the same time..
my merisik was going well on 11.9.11 alhamdullilah..
This engagement has cost me a lot of money which is very unexpected..
with plans and budget but still, i spent more than what i supposed to spend..
its ok, will not regret it because this just happen once in my life..

Im happy that im going to step further nearer to be my future fiancee's wife..
he is the one for me..n i love him..
Talking about the ceremony, now i just realized that to organize such function like this requires perfect plan and perfect budgeting..i am a banker but im not really good in my own financial plan. The cost for a mini pelamin nowadays is nothing less than 400. I dont like to have a mini pelamin on my engagement day, i bought two high vase flowers, small vase flowers, bunga atas katil, bunga atas langsir for 450, which is more than the cost of mini pelamin. But however, these flowers can be reuse for my nikah next year, so it is worth it. Puchong is the perfect place to buy flowers and wedding deco, hantaran and other wedding accesories . WHy? because its cheap and the design is just like what i've seen in Nilai 3 which is more expensive..heheh

for my hantaran, i ordered fresh flowers at the same shop at puchong. The price is approx RM200 plus wth the deco.its damn cheap. This is a shop, not a wedding shop but it is shop for a wedding shop, its the supplier for wedding shops.. So here i saved about RM300. For my baju tunang, its very simple and nice. I tempah it at pertama shopping complex and just cost me RM190. Its cheap too and the jahitan is nice too..i like it so much. Next week i need to buy few things that i forgot to buy which is bekas plastik utk hantaran and span for hantaran too.


I hope everything will going well next week. cant wait!

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Counting Days

Today is 27/8/2011 and my merisik day is on 11.9.11..sangat x lama lagi..
Walaupun it is just merisik but rasa sgt2 nervous..
Eventhough i am sure that he is the one for me tp kadang2 ada juga terfikir "betol ke ni?"
I dont know kalau org lain mcm mana..
but for me, once kita dh melangkah ke first phase which is the merisik, you cannot turn back odi..

Im afraid, is this what i really want?
Im quite sure that i am happy with him like no others.
Adakah x pernah gaduh tu satu benda yang baik?
We've been together for 5 years and i can count how many time we fight,
3 bulan tu mungkin la ada sekali..tu pun x tentu..
Paling2 gaduh pun x sampai setengah jam dh baik balik..

I know that he is afraid too..
The responsible that he has to put on his shoulders..
macam mana nak jaga isteri..
macam mana nak lentur isteri supaya jadi isteri yg solehah..
boleh ke tanggung isteri..
aku paham..aku pun begitu..

But i am ready..i loved to be my beloved husband's wife..
im ready to wake up in the morning to prepare breakfast for my husband..
im ready to took care all of the house works...
im ready to be the most lovey wife in the world..
im ready to give him a$ smile everyday when he get back from work..
im also ready to be a mummy if Allah murahkan rezeki..

Ya allah..tunjukkanlah kami ke jalan yg benar..
Jauhilah kami dr maksiat
Jauhilah kami dr godaan syaitan

Amin

Monday, June 13, 2011

Wedding

Smalam wedding kawan baik ku..
aku jadi pengapit..
huhuh..gembira n sedih bercampur..
but after all semuanya berjalan dgn lancar..
alhamdullilah..xsabar2 nak tunggu turn aku plak..
weee...

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Dunia oh Dunia ..

Apalah nak jadi dengan dunia sekarang ni..
mcm2 benda pelik terjadi...
ibu dah x syangkan anak nya, bapa pun sama juga sanggup nak kelar tengkuk anaknya yang baru berusia 4 tahun. Itu cerita di beijing, apabila bapa mahu mengerat tengkuk anak perempuannya kerana tidak mahu ditahan selepas mengalami kemalang.. kes langgar lari..pastu bile kene kejar polis, ugut plak polis nak kelar tengkuk anak..masyallah...

kt malaysia pun apa kurangnya..baru2 ni kita di gemparkan dengan berita "Bayi bersepai".. adoooiii....mana pergi sifat peri kemanusiaan?mcm mana boleh hilang perasaan syg kepada anak sendiri..sanggup untk mencampak anak dr tingkat lima..Ya allah..anak tu xtau apa2 pun lagi, boleh2 dihukum dengan dasyat sekali..aku x sanggup nak baca..Yang kisah simbah asid pun satu hal, apa ntah motif penyimbah tu buat mcm tu? kenapa nak cederakan org? gila agaknya..kesian sampai ada yang buta disebabkan terkena asid..apa lah nak jadi ni...sangat pelik

Sunday, April 10, 2011

The day will come..

Everybody was waiting for the day to come..
once your age has reach up to a certain level you will want to think about a new family..
the age will be at 25, where all girls are dreams for..
i am 24 today, and wanted my bachelor life to be ended in next year..
as a malay and muslims, there are many traditions that i've to follow..
there are 4 stages of married; which are merisik, bertunang, nikah and sanding

i've been planning this since i was a little girl..
i said to my mum that i want to get married at the age of 25..
and my mum was smiling as i was too young to said that..
it was a very big decision to made..
it is not like having a boyfriend where we can break up and find other boy as a replacement..
marriage is difficult..
to plan for it is even more difficult..
today is 10th April 2011 and i have to get started to plan what color theme for my merisik and tunang..
not just that, i have to plan early where its gonna be for my sanding functions..

Too many things to think about..too many things to be in the list..
im so confused..so many mouths talking giving ideas and advice not to do this and dont pick up this colour..
Why just can i pick my own ideas?but my ideas is too unique and it is not suitable with malay traditions..
Malay's wedding is complicated and i dont really like it..
i would prefer a very simple and not expensive wedding..
one day of wedding functions would be perfect if i just spend less then 30k..

Value of money today is not the same as value of money 10 years ago..
i can do anything with 30k but for today 30k is not enough for a wedding..
why can i just do a dinner without pelamin and hantaran?
fuh..

it is better to start planning today rather than 6month before wedding..
i want my wedding to be a happy moment for all of the peoples who will be attending to the function..
the most important thing of a wedding is the food..i want a delicious food to be presented to the guest
and door gift is the second important thing..
Overall, i would say that people's comforts are important.. :)
lets just pray that everything will runs smooth with fun and happines..

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

class oh classroom....

Aloha,

My MBA class has started last 2weeks and it was so damn tiring.Class started at 9am and finished at 6pm, that was 8hours of boring and sleepy class. However, on the first day of class i feel so nervous and got totally blank. Well that is me..so blur and clumsy..However, i managed to control my self behaving like a normal person (like im not normal).

My classmates,they all are at the age of baby boomers. Except me n yana which we are the youngest among them all. Due to that makes me more nervous, plus all of them are someone from the top management. grrr...like studying with ur boss..haha...that was funny....twice i've been in class and now i have lots of assgmts. Dun hav the time to look at it as i was too busy handling people's money at work. DONT WORK IN OPERATION DPT!!. This work has totured me so much.

My team member is a 40 years old chinesse man who owns a business. This is the first time i have a chinese man my group. Feel kinda weird but in the same time i feel lucky and happy because at least i can learn something from them.This guy is very friendly and i got the feeling that he kind of a hardworking type of person.

Others are friendly too. They all are from different background, some of them from Japan, Iran and Libya. Some do export and import and own a hospitals??wow..damn rich. MBA is totally diff from dip and BBA. Hope i can cope all the subjects with my hectic work-style. :)